Amaseshini amaqembu amakhulu ayinhlanganisela yokuzijabulisa nokuxhumana, asendaweni enhle yangaphandle. Ngihola wonke umuntu emaqoqweni amahle, angokwemvelo ngesikhathi ngigcina umoya ulula futhi ukhululekile. Sizothatha izithombe ezijwayelekile zokumamatheka, ukuxhumana okungagwegwesi, nokubambisana kwamaqembu amancane ukuze wonke umuntu azizwe efakiwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyisibuyekezo somndeni, umgubho, noma inkumbulo yezizukulwane eziningi, ngigxila ekwakheni izithombe ezizwakala zingokoqobo, zijabulisa, futhi zingaphelelwa yisikhathi.

Ama-session e-milestone nawobuntu agubha yonke iminyaka nesigaba—kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyizihleko zokuqala zomntwana ezinyangeni ezingu-3, ingane encane enomoya, intsha ekhazimulayo, noma umuntu ojabule oneminyaka engu-103. La maseshini ayajabulisa, akhululekile, futhi aklanyelwe ukuveza ubuntu bangempela. Sizothwebula izici ezikhethekile, ukumamatheka, nobuntu bakho njengamanje, ngendlela ezwakala ingokwemvelo nejabulisayo. Kulungele izinsuku zokuzalwa, izikhathi ezinkulu, noma “ngoba nje”—ngoba bonke ubudala bufanelwe ukubonakala kahle.

thwebula umlingo wohambo lwakho ngezithombe ezikhanyayo, ezizwakala zingokwemvelo futhi zingakhathazi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyizinyawo esihlabathini, ukuhambahamba edolobheni, noma umzuzu wokuthula ekushoneni kwelanga, ngizobhala okokuzithokozisa kwakho ngenhlanganisela yezimo eziqondisiwe nemizwa eqotho. Ilungele imibhangqwana, imindeni, noma izihambi ezizodwa—lezi akuzona nje izithombe zeholide, ziyizinkumbulo ezifanelwe ukufakwa emafreyimu ezikubuyisela emuva emuzweni wokuba khona ngokugcwele, ndawonye, futhi ukhululekile.

Iseshini yasesitudiyo ethokomele, yamahora angu-2 eyenzelwe ukunethezeka kwengane yakho nemikhondo yayo yemvelo. Ngiyiqondisa ngobunono ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa ukuba ime ngezindlela ezingaphelelwa yisikhathi ngisebenzisa izinto zokugoqa ezithambile, izingubo, nezinto zokusiza ezikhethiwe—akunasidingo sokuletha lutho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna izithombe zomntwana oyedwa noma izithombe ezimbalwa zomndeni, ijubane liyakhululeka futhi liholwa umntwana, nesikhathi esiningi sokumthulisa, ukumnika ukudla, nokuthatha ikhefu. Umphumela: izithombe ezinhle, ezithinta inhliziyo ozizazisa kuze kube phakade.

Iseshini yomndeni yesikhathi esihle iyakhululeka, iyajabulisa, futhi igcwele ukukhanya okufudumele, okukhazimulayo. Sizohlangana ngaphambi nje kokushona kwelanga endaweni enhle, sithwebule ukuhleka okungazenzisiyo, ukwanga okuthulile, nezikhathi zemvelo. Ngikuhola ngobumnene ngenkathi ngivumela izingane zizihlole futhi zizizwe zikhululekile. Lindela izithombe ezithathwe ekushoneni kwelanga nezithombe ezinhle ezibonisa ubungane obukhethekile bomndeni wakho—izinkumbulo ezingasoze zalibaleka ezisongwe ekukhanyeni okugolide.