Sizokwenza izithombe ezinhle ngendlela oyifisayo, kungaba yilezo ezithathwe ngokucophelela noma ezithathwe ngokungacabangi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zithathwe endaweni oyithandayo enokukhanya kwemvelo noma endaweni ehlanzekile, elawulwayo yestudiyo sethu. Izilwane ezifuywayo ziyamukelekile ngoba nazo ziyimindeni. Ezithombeni zekhanda, sizogqamisa ukuzethemba kwakho; ezithombeni zobuciko, sizobonisa lokho okukwenza ube nguwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunjani, uzohamba nezithombe ezikhuthaza ukuxhumana, uhlobo olwenza abantu bathi, 'Manje lokho kuyakubonisa.'

Izikhathi zangempela. Izinto ezifudumele. Lowo mlingo onjengomfanekiso. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yimpelasonto yokugubha ukungashadi ezintabeni, umcimbi wosuku lokuzalwa edolobheni, noma ukubonana kabusha ngaphansi kwezibani zepaki, sizobe sikhona ukuze sizwe ukuhleka, ukwanga, nezikhathi ezimnandi eziphakathi nendawo. Azikho izimo zokuma eziqinile, wena nje, ujabula, ungcolile, futhi uphila ngokugcwele. Ake siguqule iphathi yakho ibe yizithombe ezizwakala njengenkumbulo, hhayi nje isithombe.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi impelasonto ye-bachelorette ezintabeni, i-birthday bash yedolobha, noma ukuhlangana kabusha ngaphansi kwezibani zepaki, sizoba lapho amahora amabili agcwele ukuxosha ukuhleka, ukwanga, nezikhathi ezincane zasendle phakathi. Ufuna ukwandisa umlingo? Sizoletha amakhamera efilimu alahlwayo angu-5 ukuze iqembu lakho lithwebule. Ekupheleni kobusuku, siyaziqoqa bese sisingatha konke okunye, ukuze uthole izithombe zabo ezingacabangi, iminwe efiphele, ukubonga nge-champagne, nakho konke. Phinda kabili ukukhumbula, akukho msebenzi owengeziwe kuwe.

Ukucela umshado okungazelelwe. Ukuncanyiswa okungazelelwe. Ukuvakasha okunelanga. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlela isiphakamiso esimangazayo esithinta inhliziyo ekuphumeni kwelanga, iseshini yokuhlanganyela ethokomele emnyuziyamu yobuciko, noma umzuzu oseceleni kwechibi onezinzwane emanzini, sizobe silapho, ikhamera isesandleni, ukuze sithwebule umlingo wangempela: izandla ezinyakazayo, yebo ogcwele izinyembezi, indlela enihleka ngayo nobabili lapho izinzwa ekugcineni zincibilika. Noma ngabe kunjani lapho uzizwa ukhona, ake siguqule lezi ziqephu zokuqala zaphakade zibe yizithombe ezizwakala ziphila njengothando lwakho.

Jabulela uthando lwakho uzungezwe ubuhle bezindawo zaseColorado. Lesi sikhathi sokubaleka esithatha ihora elilodwa kuya kwamabili sinikezelwe ekuthwebuleni imizwa yangempela yosuku lwakho, kusukela ekulindeleni okuthulile kuya ekugujweni okujabulisayo. Sizofuna ukukhanya okuhle kakhulu endaweni ekhuluma nomphefumulo wakho, sakhe igalari yezithombe ezingaphelelwa isikhathi futhi eziyiqiniso njengothando lwakho.

Lokhu kungaphezu nje kokubhala; kuyindlela yokulondoloza usuku lwakho, kusukela ekumomothekeni okuthulile, okunokhathazeka njengoba ulungela umdanso wokugcina ngaphansi kwezinkanyezi. Ngizobe ngikhona kunoma yisiphi isahluko osidingayo, ngizifaka ngokuphelele emuva ukuze ngithwebule izikhathi ezingalungisiwe, ezingabhalwanga nemizwa emikhulu eyenza uthando lwakho lube olwehlukile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usentabeni, esinqolobaneni, noma egcekeni elingemuva lomndeni wakho, sizokwakha indaba engasoze yaphelelwa yisikhathi ozoyikhumbula izizukulwane ngezizukulwane.