Indlela yokusungula indaba yakho

Ababungazi Abavelele u-Tereasa no-David baxoxa ngezindlela zabo eziphumelelayo abazithandayo zokuxoxa izindaba.
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Okuvelele

  • Ukuthola, ukusungula, nokwabelana ngendaba yakho kuyindlela yokuxhumana nezivakashi

  • Cabanga ngokokuzithokozisa ekhaya noma endaweni yakho izivakashi ezingeke zikuthole kwenye indawo

  • Sungula inkundla yokuxhumana ekhaya lakho

  • Singatha zonke iziphazamiso njengethuba lokufunda nokukhula

  • Thola okwengeziwe eziqondisweni eziphelele zethu zokuthuthukisa indlela yakho yokubungaza

Ababungazi Abavelele u-Tereasa no-David kukhona abakwaziyo ngamandla endaba exoxiwe. Njengabazali, abavikeli bezindawo, abaqondisi abangamaciko, abalobi, nabanikazi be-Camp Wandawega e-Elkhorn, e-Wisconsin, baye bafunda indlela indaba exoxiwe engabasondelanisa ngayo abantu ndawonye. “Njengoba saqala ukwambula nokuphosta imininingwane yomlando wokukhempa—njengenkantini yango-1920, indawo yokuhlangana kweviyo, i-brothel, indawo yokukhepha ehlobo yomphakathi wababaleki base-Latvia, kanye nendlela esihlangana ngayo nayo thina—sithole ukuthi abantu bayakujabulela ngempela lokho,” kusho u-Tereasa.

Lapha, bakhuluma ngamazwi ahlakaniphile endlela yokuthola nokusungula indaba yekhaya lakho.

1. Thola indlela ozoyisebenzisa

U-Tereasa: “Ngisho noma indawo yakho ingeyona inkantini yakudala, kuba khona njalo ongaxoxa ngakho. Ukuze uthole okwakho, qala ngokuthola imininingwane:

  • Uyini umlando wekhaya lakho?
  • Yiziphi izindawo ezihlukile edolobheni okulo ezenza izivakashi zingayi kwenye indawo?
  • Yikuphi ukudla okulula okuthandwayo ongase ukubukele phansi?

Yenza ucwaningo futhi ukubhale endlini oyifakile.”

U-David: “Kuningi kakhulu ongakubhala ngendlu yakho ngaphandle kwenani lamakamelo namagumbi okugezela. Abantu bafuna ukwazi ukuthi bangayitholaphi inkomishi emnandi yekhofi, bafuna ukwazi izindawo ozithandayo—ngakho yisho into eyenza okokuzithokozisa kwakho kube okuhlukile. Izivakashi zifuna ukuxhumana nawe nesizathu sokuba zikwazi ukuba nobuhlobo nawe, futhi ukuxoxa izindaba kuyasisiza sisondelane.”

2. Wamukele amaphutha ozowenza

U-David: “Ekuqaleni, sathola ukuthi kudingeka silawule lokho abantu abakulindele kusenesikhathi ngoba asifuni ukubadumaza. Ngakho sisungule i-Manifesto of Low Expectations. Kuyindlela elula ngathi yokwethula ukuphila kwasemahlathini. Kutshela abantu lokho abangakulindela—ngokuvamile okuyizimbungulu, izilwane zasemahlathini, nendawo engenayo i-air conditioning—ngakho uma udinga amashidi ezinga eliphezulu noma izinto ezibizayo, ngeke ukuthole kule ndawo.”

U-Tereasa: “Asizivezi siyilokho esingeyikho. Ngakho sincika kulokho ngolimi esilusebenzisayo ukuze sichaze indawo yethu. Sinqume ukutshela abantu amaqiniso enjengoba enjalo. Sisebenzisa ulimi oluhlekisayo kodwa olungagwegwesi. Ihaba silisebenzisa impela, futhi liyilokho okusenza sibe namahlaya, engicabanga ukuthi kusenza singeneke. Futhi akudingeki ube umkhangisi ochwepheshile ukuthi ungeneke—ungachaza nje indawo yakho ngendlela enesizotha.”

U-David: “Uma ngibheka ku-Airbnb, ngiyajabula lapho ubuntu bothile buvela endleleni achaza ngayo indawo yakhe. Ikakhulukazi uma sizobe siyihlanganyela indawo, ngifuna ukwazi ungumuntu wamahlaya futhi ungumuntu engingathanda ukuchitha isikhathi naye. Ungazami ukungithembisa izulu nomhlaba. Ungazami ukuziveza njengengelosi. Thembeka futhi ubonise injabulo ngoba abantu bafuna ukuthokomala uma bezohlala endaweni yakho.”

3. Chitha isikhathi nazo

U-Tereasa: “Ukuze ukhange abaningi ukhuphule nokubhukha, yenza indlu yakho itholakale enkundleni yezokuxhumana. Empeleni, abantu abaningi basithola kwezokuxhumana kuqala. Bathola izithombe zethu noma bazibone ku-Instagram—kuyindlela enhle kakhulu yokuthola izivakashi nokuzimema zizojabulela ukuvakasha kwazo ngokukhempa. Amacebiso ambalwa:

    • Zama ukwabelana ngezikhathi zokuphila abantu abafuna ukungena kuzo. Ufuna ukuba nencwadi yakho eceleni kombhede, nenkomishi yekhofi elishisayo ubuka ngaphandle kwefasitela—konke.
    • Ukuhlobisa okuhle nesithombe esihle kuyindlela ebalulekile yokuxoxa indaba. Kwenze kukhange futhi kube kuhle!”

    U-David: “Lapho abantu bevakashela e-Wandawega, angazi ukuthi sekukaningi kangakanani abantu bengitshela ukuthi babone isithombe ku-Instagram, futhi bafuna ukuphuthuma baye khona ukuze nabo bajabulele ukuba kuleyo ndawo. I-Instagram iba uhlu lwezenzakalo ezifiselekayo—nesithombe esikhombisa izivakashi indawo yakho. Ngokuvamile kungase kube yisona sizathu sokuba ubhukhwe.”

    Ungazami ukuziveza njengengelosi. Thembeka ukhulume iqiniso futhi ubonise ukwenama.
    David,
    Elkhorn, Wisconsin

    4. Ungapheli umoya

    U-David: “Ekuqaleni, senza amaphutha amaningi. Kodwa sifundile ukwamukela lokho esikubiza ngokuthi ukwamukela amaphutha—kanye nezinkinga zokuphila. Ngokwesibonelo, ngokuxoxa izindaba, sifunde ukuthi kukhona lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukuxoxa okuningi. Nakuba abantu bekuthanda ukuzwa ngemininingwane ethile ngendawo—abadingi ngempela ukwazi konke ngokuqondene nayo—ikakhulukazi uma bezolala kuleyo ndawo. Ngemva kwesikhathi, uzobona ukuthi yini ekusebenzelayo, yini engakusebenzeli, nokuthi yini ethandwa izivakashi zakho.”

    U-Tereasa: “Ukwamukela amaphutha, kithi, kusho ukusingatha zonke izithiyo njengethuba lokukhula. Kuyindlela ofunda ngayo.”

    5. Xoxa ngalokho osukwenzile

    U-Tereasa: “Ngesikhathi siqala ukubungaza, nganginokwesaba okukhulu kokuthumela izithombe zethu ‘zangaphambilini.’ Ngangicabanga ukuthi akekho umuntu owayezofuna ukuzohlala nathi ngenxa yokuthi indawo yethu yayiyimbi. Kodwa empeleni baningi abantu abakuthanda ukubona izithombe ‘zangaphambili nangemva’ kokulungiswa kwayo.”

    U-David: “Abantu bayamthanda umuntu othembekile. Bafuna ukubona inqubo. Futhi, bafuna ukusondelana nawe—ngakho ungesabi ukubaxoxela okuthile ngalokho osukwenzile ekuphileni. Batshele iqiniso, futhi ubatshele indaba okungeyakho wedwa.“

    Okuvelele

    • Ukuthola, ukusungula, nokwabelana ngendaba yakho kuyindlela yokuxhumana nezivakashi

    • Cabanga ngokokuzithokozisa ekhaya noma endaweni yakho izivakashi ezingeke zikuthole kwenye indawo

    • Sungula inkundla yokuxhumana ekhaya lakho

    • Singatha zonke iziphazamiso njengethuba lokufunda nokukhula

    • Thola okwengeziwe eziqondisweni eziphelele zethu zokuthuthukisa indlela yakho yokubungaza
    Airbnb
    Aga 22, 2023
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