Ukuxhumana nezivakashi zakho zamaGumbi

Ezinye izivakashi zibhukha amaGumbi ku-Airbnb ngoba ziyakujabulela ukuhlangana nabantu abasha, kuyilapho ezinye zikhetha ukuzihlalela zodwa. Uthanda kangakanani ukuxoxa nabantu? Ungatshela izivakashi kumasethingi endlu yakho.

Khetha enye yalawa maphreferensi amane okuxhumana ngokoqobo kumasethingi endlu yakho:

• Ngiyakuthanda ukuxoxa nokuchitha isikhathi nezivakashi.

• Ngiyakuthanda ukubingelelana ubuso nobuso, bese ngingabe ngisaba uhlupho.

• Ngeke ngibe khona ngokoqobo futhi ngincamela ukukhulumisana nge-app.

• Awekho iphreferensi. Ngizohambisana nalokho okufunwa yizivakashi zami.

Ungabhala nemininingwane ecacisayo encazelweni yendlu yakho, njengokuthi yimaphi amahora ovame ukutholakala ngawo ukuze unikeze usizo phakathi nesikhathi sokuhlala kwezivakashi.

U-Richard, obungaza iGumbi edolobheni lase-Toronto, uyakuthanda ukuvulela izivakashi ikhaya lakhe. Uthi, “Kungaphezu nje kwesakhiwo sezitini nodaka.” “Ukuba nengxoxo ezuzisayo nezivakashi—ukukhululeka nokulalela abantu.”

U-Richard ubingelela izivakashi zakhe emnyango wangaphambili lapho zingena futhi azibonise indawo yakhe. Uthi, “Ngicabanga ukuthi kunesici sobuntu sonke esisifunayo ekuphileni.” “Ngibanikeza imvume kuyo yonke into kusukela kuvulande kuya endaweni yokosa, ukuze bazizwe sengathi leli yikhaya labo elikude nasekhaya.”

U-Richard uyakujabulela nokubonisa izivakashi idolobha. Uthi, “Ngiyathanda ukubheka lokho abakuthandayo.” “Ngibe sengithi, ‘Ake ngininikeze okuvelele okungekho ohambweni lwenu oluvamile lwasedolobheni.’ Kimina, ukuvakasha kuyincwadi yokuphila.”

U-Ruth, uMbungazi e-Perth, e-Australia, uyakuthanda ukubingelela izivakashi. Ube esezibonisa ifulethi elinamakamelo amathathu, izindlu zokugezela ezimbili eziphrayivethi, negumbi lokuphumula eliyiGumbi lakhe.

Ngemva kokubabonisa indlu kafushane, uRuth uvumela izivakashi ukuba zibe zodwa. Uya engxenyeni yazo yendlu kuphela uma ewasha.

“Ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kuhlangana kokuqala kusemqoka,” kusho u-Ruth. “Abanye abantu abafuni nhlobo ukuxoxa, kodwa abanye bayakuthanda, futhi kuba mnandi. Lokho kube yinto engalindelekile engiyijabulele.”

U-Dandara, oyilungu leBhodi Yabeluleki Bababungazi e-Maceió, e-Brazil, ukhetha ukuvumela izivakashi zinqume ukuthi zifuna ukuxhumana okungakanani. Uthi uzama ukuthola lokhu ezingeni abakhuluma ngalo lapho ebabonisa ikhaya lakhe.

Uhlezi egcina ngokuya nazo kuvulandi wakhe, lapho engazitshela khona ngezindawo akuthandayo ukuya kuzo futhi aphendule noma yimiphi imibuzo. Uthi uthole ukuthi izivakashi ziyakhululeka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, futhi kokunye nize nisondelane njengokungathi “seziyingxenye yomndeni.”

U-Dandara uthola ukuthi yena nezivakashi zakhe bathambekele ekuxhumaneni etafuleni esidlweni sasekuseni. Wonke umuntu unikela okuthile okuncane, njengezithelo namakhekhe. Uthi, “Zilunga lapho-ke izinto—kuvele kugileke izimanga.”

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